Miss C is
my magic baby. For so many reasons.
She was a most wanted surprise.
When you have a lot of kids
and when you have kids and you are old, people ask a lot of probing questions. "
Was she planned?" has been the most frequent one.
Ummmm... it is pretty hard to plan a baby when you are 45 years old!?
I
knew she was
special (yes, they all are, but this one is different) when I was about 8 weeks pregnant. My husband was
very worried.
Knowing there would be lots of negativity from family.
Ten kids is a lot.
Money.
My health.
Baby's health.
His age.
My age. One night in the midst of all this worry, I woke up and I woke him up.
"She wants to be wanted. She wants to not be feared."
Little Baby inside told me this. I know it sounds all new-age-y and airy-fairy, but she did. It was strange because I had been convinced baby would be a boy
(and this conviction was strengthened by my acupuncturist's prediction). We found out 12 weeks into it that she was, in fact, a she.
I had genetic testing (CVS) and so it was certain... as was the fact that she was genetically healthy :)
It was an amazing pregnancy, and I looked at it as the gift it truly was.
It would be my last. I relished every part of it...
especially the baby moving part... my favorite :) My due date was given as
Q-Man's birthday... March 6. He told me he wanted to
be 4 before the baby came. She complied. I went into labor at 10 p.m. on his birthday, and
she was born the next afternoon.
Her birth was different from the other 3 kids'. I was the calmest ever. The nurses and doctors in attendance were so fun and friendly! It was almost like a party! I sang to the anesthesiologist
(he said that was a first... it was "Good ship lollipop"... for real). A mere 7 minutes from "ready to go" to baby on my chest. And
she was born in the caul (en-caul according to this article). I wouldn't let them break my water because my oldest two had dipped into distress when that was done. The doctors were really excited to see a baby born in the bag! I wish I could post pictures... it looks
really cool... but some people are not "into" birth pictures... and I am not so sure I want
that view of myself on a
public blog :P
So here she is... my magic girl...
Less than 5 minutes out of the oven...
Been out in the world just under an hour...
Less than 24 hours and meeting her brothers and sister for the first time...
Six months and figuring out how to crawl...
She fits right in!
Three days before her 1st birthday... loves to play patty-cake!
Mittens!
18 months old... look at those teeth!
And today...
we went ice skating for her birthday.
It was her first time on the ice...
and she LOVED it!!
Tomorrow I'll put up more about the skating :)
Right now it is time for the cake!
